{"id":140642,"date":"2024-06-15T20:28:11","date_gmt":"2024-06-16T00:28:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.aa87.org\/resources\/all-leaflets\/le-mot-dieu-membres-agnostiques-et-athees-chez-les-aa\/"},"modified":"2025-11-25T19:04:33","modified_gmt":"2025-11-26T00:04:33","slug":"le-mot-dieu-membres-agnostiques-et-athees-chez-les-aa","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/www.aa87.org\/en\/resources\/all-leaflets\/le-mot-dieu-membres-agnostiques-et-athees-chez-les-aa\/","title":{"rendered":"The \u00abGod\u00bb Word: agnostic and atheist"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-page\" data-elementor-id=\"140642\" class=\"elementor elementor-140642 elementor-119955\" data-elementor-post-type=\"page\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-1d048ea elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"1d048ea\" data-element_type=\"section\" 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elementor-widget__width-initial elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"7fd8987\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><em>A<sub>lcoholics<\/sub> \u00a0A<sub>nonymous<\/sub><\/em><em>\u00ae<\/em><em>\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0<\/em>is \u00a0a \u00a0fellowship \u00a0of \u00a0men \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0and women who share their experience, strength and hope with each other that they may solve their common problem and help others to recover from alcoholism.<\/p><ul><li style=\"list-style-type: none;\"><ul><li>The only requirement for membership is a desire to stop There are no dues or fees for A.A. membership; we are self-supporting through our own contributions.<\/li><li>A. is not allied with any sect, denomination, politics, organization or institution; does not wish to engage in any controversy; neither endorses nor opposes any causes.<\/li><li>Our primary purpose is to stay sober and help other alcoholics to achieve<\/li><\/ul><\/li><\/ul>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-07ef3d2 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"07ef3d2\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h3>The \u201cGod\u201d Word<\/h3><h4>Agnostic and Atheist Members in A.A.<\/h4><h4>Introduction<\/h4><p>A.A. is not a religious organization. Alcoholics Anonymous has only one requirement for member- ship, and that is the desire to stop drinking. There is room in A.A. for people of all shades of belief and non-belief.<\/p><p>Many members believe in some sort of god, and we have members who come from and practice all sorts of religions, but many are also atheist or ag- nostic. It\u2019s important to remember that A.A. is not a religious organization; we have a simple idea that there is a power greater than us as individuals.<\/p><p>What we all have in common is that the program helps us find an inner strength that we were previ- ously unaware of \u2014 where we differ is in how we identify the source. Some people have thought of the word \u201cGod\u201d as standing for \u201cgood orderly direc- tion,\u201d or even \u201cgroup of drunks,\u201d but many of us believe that there is something bigger than our- selves that is helping us today.<\/p><p>This power may lie within some person\u2019s reli- gious beliefs, or it can be completely separate from any religion. For example, one member looks at the sea and accepts that it is a power greater than him. We could ask ourselves, \u201cDo I believe that some- how there is a <em>power greater than myself?\u201d<\/em><\/p><p>As A.A. co-founder Bill W. wrote in 1965:<\/p><p><em>We<\/em> <em>have atheists and agnostics. We have people of nearly every race, culture and religion. In A.A. we are supposed to be bound together in the kinship of a common suffering. Consequently, the full indi- vidual liberty to practice any creed or principle or therapy whatever should be a first consideration for us all. Let us not, therefore, pressure anyone with our individual or even our collective views. Let us instead accord each other the respect and love that is due to every human being as he tries to make his way toward the light. Let us always try to\u00a0<\/em><em style=\"letter-spacing: 0px;\">be inclusive rather than exclusive; let us remember that each alcoholic among us is a member of A.A., so long as he or she declares.<\/em><\/p><p>Whatever you do, please don\u2019t let someone else\u2019s religious beliefs prevent you from finding the solu- tion that is available to you through Alcoholics Anonymous.<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><h2>An Atheist\u2019s Experience in A.A.<\/h2><p>My name is Paul, and I am an alcoholic. I am an atheist. I believe there probably is no God. I cannot prove there is no God, because it is impossible to prove a negative statement like that. I have been an atheist since long before I came to A.A. I have a higher power. It is very tangible, and it is easy to understand and to contact: It is the Fellowship of Alcoholics Anonymous.<\/p><p>I came to Alcoholics Anonymous a beaten man. I am a very lucky, grateful person. I have not had a drink since that first meeting, one day at a time. When I came to that first meeting, the word \u201cGod\u201d in the Steps \u2014 and subsequently when I read the Big Book \u2014 did trouble me, but I was desperate. I went to lots of meetings, listened and read, and did not pick up that first drink. I started on our program of recovery. In the following years, I realized that Bill W. is very clear in the Big Book. He refers re- peatedly to the God or higher power \u201cof your under- standing.\u201d The God in the Big Book is the God of Bill W.\u2019s understanding.<\/p><p>I had tried many times to stop and to control my drinking. I could stop for a day, a few days \u2014 and, 18 months before I came to A.A., I stopped for three months. Each effort ended in failure because I was still in denial. I thought that if I really put my mind to it, I was strong enough to stop. Each time I tried to stop I went back to drinking and it got worse. It was a terrible place to be. I believe that the first stage in my recovery was a deep-down honesty with myself, admitting that alcohol was controlling me and that there was nothing I could do about it on my own. I needed a power greater than alcohol and greater than me \u2014 and I found that power in Alcoholics Anonymous.<\/p><p>When I honestly admitted that alcohol was con- trolling me, I also admitted that my life was unman- ageable. Because if alcohol is controlling my life,\u00a0<span style=\"letter-spacing: 0px;\">then I am not, and so my life is, by definition, un- manageable. To me that\u2019s Step One.<\/span><\/p><p>I am on a journey, and my appreciation of the Twelve Steps is evolving as I grow in the program. I need that regular conscious contact with the Fellowship to keep me sober, one day at a time.<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><h2>Living Sober as an Agnostic<\/h2><p>Before I came into the Fellowship, I thought A.A. was a Christian organization. I also thought it was very old-fashioned. I tried psychotherapy and it did nothing for me. I tried other kinds of counseling but they didn\u2019t work either. I was drinking to oblivion on a daily basis. A.A. for me was a last resort and proof of just how desperate I was.<\/p><p>The meetings seemed to be full of God \u2014 in the Twelve Steps, in the literature, in people\u2019s sharing\u00a0<span style=\"text-align: -webkit-match-parent; letter-spacing: 0px;\">but I didn\u2019t care at the time because I felt I was in the right I was among alcoholics like myself, and they seemed to be all right. It was only when I began to feel better and started to consider these mysterious Steps that I wondered how on earth I was going to be able to do them without a belief in God. People in the Fellowship told me my higher power could be anything \u2014 a number 19 bus if I liked \u2014 but that was clearly daft.<\/span><\/p><p>I settled on the idea of the Fellowship itself as my higher power while trying to stay open to the possi- bility of developing a religious belief, because the literature indicated that, ultimately, I needed to be- lieve in God if I was going to stay sober. The litera- ture seems to say that it\u2019s OK to be an atheist or an agnostic, but if we want proper sobriety and a happy life, eventually we are going to need God in our lives.<\/p><p>I know today that isn\u2019t true, but at the time, I got a sponsor, went through the Steps with her, shared my Step Four with her and prayed with her. It felt hollow and untruthful, but I did it because I thought that was what I was supposed to do.<\/p><p>My lack of religious belief sometimes made me feel I was on the margins of A.A. rather than proper- ly plugged in, but I went regularly to meetings and did service where I could. Gradually, A.A. worked for me despite my misgivings. I developed a con- science in A.A. and learned how to be honest with\u00a0<span style=\"letter-spacing: 0px;\">myself and others. I learned the value of service and how to make friends in sobriety.<\/span><\/p><p>I haven\u2019t had a drink for 25 years, and I am no longer waiting for my religious conversion. I am still an agnostic. I don\u2019t know whether or not there is a supernatural power, but I don\u2019t believe that there is, and having a few years of sobriety behind me gives me the confidence to be open about my lack of belief.<\/p><p>I am aware that it\u2019s not so easy for others, and I am glad that there are a few atheist meetings now where newcomers can share freely. I do have a practice that some people would describe as spiritu- al, although I wouldn\u2019t call it that myself: I meditate every day and I think it helps keep me on an even keel, mentally and emotionally.<\/p><p>I was desperate to stop drinking and came to\u00a0<span style=\"letter-spacing: 0px;\">A.A. even though I hated the idea of it. And it got me sober. I trust that if I look into my own heart, clearly and with humility, and if I follow my instinct and my conscience, I will do the right thing and my life will be useful and meaningful. If I am not sure, other al- coholics whom I trust will be able to help me.<\/span><\/p><p>There is a place for atheists and agnostics in A.A. and a way through to a happy, sober life \u2014 and we should help each other to find it.<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><h2>Neil\u2019s Story<\/h2><p>When I was a kid I was forced to go to Sunday school and church, although both my parents were very infrequent church attenders. When I was a teenager, one of the local ministers ran off with a parishioner\u2019s wife. His replacement threw my un- married Sunday school teacher out of the school because she got pregnant. I found this all very hyp- ocritical so I rejected God, rejected religion and re- jected the church. In my late teens I read something in a magazine that said, \u201cIf you can believe in noth- ing else, believe in yourself.\u201d That article suddenly transformed me into Superman, and that was the way I lived for many years.<\/p><p>When I finally arrived in A.A., I was admitting for the first time that I wasn\u2019t able to run my own life and that I wasn\u2019t Superman. I read the Twelve Steps and I had no problem realizing there was a power greater than myself \u2014 vodka and coke. I made a decision to turn my will and my life over to\u00a0<span style=\"letter-spacing: 0px;\">the care of Alcoholics Anonymous because you, a bunch of complete strangers, couldn\u2019t make a big- ger mess of my life than I\u2019d made myself.<\/span><\/p><p>After about three weeks in the Fellowship, I sud- denly realized I hadn\u2019t had a single argument during those three weeks. For most of my life I\u2019d been hav- ing at least one argument with at least one person every day. That\u2019s when I realized that I\u2019d been living according to my own conscience even though I hadn\u2019t made a decision to do so. It felt so good that I made a decision there and then to live according to my conscience. That\u2019s the way I\u2019ve lived for a number of years now and it still feels good.<\/p><p>Gradually, as time went on, I came to believe that there is something within me that guides me through life and looks after me. I don\u2019t know who or what it is, but I\u2019m convinced there is \u201csomething.\u201d Sometimes I call it \u201cGod\u201d simply because it\u2019s one syllable and it slips off the tongue easily. I still con- sider myself an agnostic, though.<\/p><p>The first three words of Step Two are \u201cCame to believe.\u201d Those three words tell me that it is a grad- ual process. I haven\u2019t seen a big flash of light and been instantly transformed, but many little things have happened in my life to convince me that \u201csomething\u201d exists. And that works for me.<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><h2>Mikey\u2019s Story<\/h2><p>As an atheist, I have found over 15 years of reward- ing growth in A.A., but the absence of agreement on religious issues has been a challenge.<\/p><p>Once I started to take A.A.\u2019s suggestions, confu- sion gave way to clarity, and A.A.\u2019s gifts of happi- ness, serenity and gratitude slowly made their way into my life.<\/p><p>But there was a difficulty for me in those early days. At meeting after meeting, I heard that if I ex- pected lasting sobriety I\u2019d have to somehow \u201ccome to believe\u201d that a mystical force was in charge of my life, that I\u2019d have to \u201cturn my will\u201d over to this super- natural force, and even seek to discover \u201chis will for me.\u201d<\/p><p>I was horrified to think that such would be the price of sobriety for me \u2014 I would have to renounce my rational convictions. I was in despair.<\/p><p>Then I found a sponsor who showed me the ropes. He guided me through my First Step and\u00a0<span style=\"letter-spacing: 0px;\">taught me that sobriety was possible for an alcohol- ic who was unable to pretend that reality was some- thing it wasn\u2019t. In fact, he told me, honesty required <\/span><em style=\"letter-spacing: 0px;\">not pretending <\/em><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0px;\">about anything; and honesty, he told me, was a non-negotiable requirement for sobriety.<\/span><\/p><p>But, in order to be honest, I would have to exam- ine myself carefully; I would have to embrace a pow- er that would let me see myself for what I was. I would have to turn my life over to the power of rea- son if I were to be \u201crestored to sanity.\u201d After all, the essence of my alcoholic insanity was a cognitive break with reality.<\/p><p>When I \u201cturned my life over\u201d to the higher pow- er of reason, the insanity began to dissolve away.<\/p><p>I discovered that life can be driven by the princi- ples of the Steps rather than by my impulses and urges. As I \u201cturned my life over\u201d to the principles of the Steps, my former alcoholic behaviors began to take a back seat.<\/p><p>My character defects and shortcomings were all tied up with the urges and impulses of my former alcoholic life. The more I aligned my life with the principles of the Steps, the more clearly I was able to see the world, and the less frequently I found my- self at the mercy of urges and impulses, anger and resentments; of guilt from harm done to others; or of just plain fears. I was being set free!<\/p><p>It could never have happened drunk; it could never have happened without discovering the prin- ciples of the Steps.<\/p><p>It happened when the principles of the Steps were put into practice by a mind set free by the higher power of reason. It is a blessing for which I shall be forever grateful.<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><h2>Sheila\u2019s Story<\/h2><p>I came into the Fellowship seven years ago as a self-proclaimed atheist. I had had many years work- ing in a Church of England school so had become used to just ignoring the \u201cGod\u201d bits. I did not join in with the prayers, etc. I was desperate for help and knew that I needed A.A., and thought that I would just carry on ignoring the \u201cGod\u201d bits \u2014 starting the Serenity Prayer with the word \u201cGrant,\u201d for instance.<\/p><p>As I became more involved in my own sobriety and the A.A. program, it became obvious that I could not ignore all this stuff indefinitely. I knew that I\u00a0<span style=\"letter-spacing: 0px;\">would have to find a way that worked for me. I found the \u201cchapter to the agnostic\u201d and the relevant Steps in the \u201cTwelve and Twelve\u201d unhelpful, as it was not any specific concept of God that I rejected: It was the whole idea that there was anything in charge or had a purpose for me or \u201clooked after me.\u201d<\/span><\/p><p>Someone suggested that I use the Fellowship it- self, as represented in the A.A. group, as a \u201chigher power.\u201d Steps Two and Three became simply a be- lief that maybe this program would work for me and then a willingness to follow suggestions and really give it a try. This worked for me.<\/p><p>Since then I have moved on to a deeper under- standing. Most importantly, I know that I am not in control. I had no control over my drinking, and now I have no control over other people, places or things, or over what life will throw at me.<\/p><p>I did realize, however, that I had a faith all along\u00a0<span style=\"text-align: -webkit-match-parent; letter-spacing: 0px;\">not in a magic man in the sky, but in the power of nature. If I cut my hand, the cut will heal all by itself as long as I keep it My body has been busy healing, recovering from the damage caused by al- cohol. I believe that this also applies to my psycho- logical well-being. With the help of the human power of compassion and unconditional support I get from the members of this Fellowship and the tools of the Twelve Step program, I can give this healing process a chance. It is certainly a power greater than myself.<\/span><\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><h2>Dean\u2019s Story<\/h2><p>When I came into A.A. I came in as a desperate, confused alcoholic who was also an atheist. As soon as I saw the word \u201cGod\u201d in the Serenity Prayer card that was on the table, I thought, \u201cWell that\u2019s it, I don\u2019t belong here. It\u2019s a religious cult.\u201d<\/p><p>The person who chaired that first meeting said not to worry too much about it and to keep coming to meetings and things will start to make sense in time. Because I was desperate to stop drinking, I did just that. I learned that it was a God of my own understanding and that A.A. was not about religion.<\/p><p>For the next four years, I didn\u2019t do much but go to meetings and do a bit of service. In those four years I just got sicker, until one day I had a choice to make: kill myself or get a sponsor and work the Steps.<\/p><p>I got a sponsor and set out to work my way\u00a0<span style=\"letter-spacing: 0px;\">through the Steps, only to fall at Step Two. I still didn\u2019t have a clue about the \u201cGod\u201d word. My spon- sor, who is a Christian, said he could not help me find my own God, and that it had to be my journey.<\/span><\/p><p>Because I didn\u2019t want anyone to accuse me of contempt prior to investigation, I set out looking at different religions. I soon learned enough to start on the subsequent Steps. I knew there might be something; I was not sure what, but there were enough sober people around me to show me some- thing was working.<\/p><p>In all I spent about a year looking at religions and different spiritual beliefs. I went to church meet- ings, groups, meetings and get-togethers. Some looked very inviting; Buddhism and Taoism had a lot to offer and fitted in with the type of life I was trying to live. But there was always something that didn\u2019t sit well with me, and it was this that was blocking me from making any commitments to any of the religions or beliefs.<\/p><p>After all this, I thought that I had wasted my time. My A.A. friends and sponsor didn\u2019t agree with me and pointed out that I had spent a year finding out what God <em>wasn\u2019t <\/em>for me. After sitting and sleep- ing on this for a while it dawned on me: out of every- thing that I had seen and learned in the past year, <em>it was OK to be an atheist in A.A.<\/em><\/p><p>My higher power is very much the love and wis- dom I find in the rooms of A.A., and the beautiful things I see while walking in nature. I have no prob- lem in using the word \u201cGod\u201d with or without a capital.\u00a0<span style=\"letter-spacing: 0px;\">My role now in A.A. is to carry the A.A. message to the still-suffering alcoholic, and that includes my journey in finding a God that works for me.<\/span><\/p><h2>An Atheist in Recovery<\/h2><p>I stumbled into the Fellowship of A.A. because I could not stop drinking and I needed to get my life back on track.<\/p><p>The first thing I noticed was the \u201cGod\u201d word. I knew this would be a problem for me. I thought A.A. was a cult and I would be brainwashed into becom- ing a religious fanatic, but I was desperate and didn\u2019t know where else to go. I felt safe in meetings and people were not judgmental. They seemed to have the same issues I did when it came to drinking.<\/p><p>I began to listen. I began to share. The \u201cGod\u201d word\u00a0<span style=\"letter-spacing: 0px;\">was and is still an issue. I am an atheist. I am also clean and sober and have been since that first day I walked into the rooms of A.A. over six years ago.<\/span><\/p><p>I kept coming to meetings. I made friends in A.A. Life started to get better. I noticed a change in my luck and circumstances. I told my sponsor it felt like I had a guardian angel. She asked if it could be my higher power \u2014 God, even. I said I preferred to think it was the power of the rooms and the support of the people in them.<\/p><p>All I know is that I could not have gotten sober on my own. I have a good life now. I work the Steps, I do service, I help newcomers, and I share my ex- perience, strength and hope. In my experience I do not have to find God to stay sober.<\/p><p>This simple program works for me. I love the di- versity in the rooms. We are all different. We are all unique. It\u2019s an inclusive club where, as stated in Tradition Three, \u201cThe only requirement for mem- bership is a desire to stop drinking.\u201d<\/p><p>In the back of the Big Book under Appendix II\u00a0<span style=\"letter-spacing: 0px;\">\u2013 Spirituality, it states, \u201cWe find that no one need have difficulty with the spirituality of the program. <\/span><em style=\"letter-spacing: 0px;\">Willingness, honesty and open-mindedness are the es- sentials of recovery\u2026\u201d<\/em><\/p><p>I owe my life to A.A. and the people in it. I came here to get sober, not to get religion. I no longer think the Fellowship is a cult. For me it is a lifesaver.<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><h2>The \u201cGod\u201d Word<\/h2><p>While I respect that many A.A. members believe in a God of their understanding, I cannot conceive of a supernatural being that resides in the sky, has hu- man characteristics (especially those of the male gender), and organizes me and everyone else as if it were a master puppeteer. And yet I have no diffi- culty in accepting a power greater than myself, and that such an acceptance is vital to my continued re- covery. I guess that makes me agnostic, but I don\u2019t like to be defined by labels, although I do use it when in the presence of someone who is struggling to find a power greater than themselves.<\/p><p>The power of the A.A. group is undoubtedly greater than myself, and involvement with this pow- er is vital to my continued recovery: as Aristotle said, \u201cThe whole is greater than the sum of its parts.\u201d But in my daily life outside of meetings, and\u00a0<span style=\"letter-spacing: 0px;\">indeed to practice the \u201cGod Steps,\u201d I need a differ- ent conception of a power greater than myself. On page 55 of the Big Book, it says, \u201cWe found the great reality deep down within us.\u201d Through the practice of daily meditation, I sense \u2014 beneath the mental chatter and the fleeting bodily feelings \u2014 a deep sense of calm and peace from which I draw strength to be able to deal with all that occurs in my daily life (\u201cthe power to carry it out,\u201d as it says in Step Eleven). This I identify as my true nature, which is common to all of us. It is also, for me, the Great Reality that is referred to in the Big Book, that is beyond all concepts and labels, and that de- fies all attempts at description.<\/span><\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><h2>The universe is my higher power<\/h2><p>My name is Jon; I am an alcoholic. I am also an atheist. I went into rehab many years ago and saw the Serenity Prayer written on a blackboard with the\u00a0<span style=\"letter-spacing: 0px;\">word \u201cGod\u201d as big as the rest of the prayer. When I found the prayer was used at A.A. meetings, I im- mediately closed my eyes, ears and mind to every- thing to do with A.A. I went to dozens of meetings while in rehab and don\u2019t remember a thing, not even the Twelve Steps.<\/span><\/p><p>When I came back to A.A. years later, I had friends who told me to use the rooms as my higher power (\u201cgroup of drunks\u201d) and to pray, even though I don\u2019t believe in any religious deities. When it came to the Third Step Prayer though, I rebelled, mainly because of the \u201cthys\u201d and \u201cthees.\u201d How can a prayer published in 1939 use old English? It was a few years before I saw the sentence below the prayer that said I didn\u2019t have to use these words. My close-mindedness again.<\/p><p>My sponsor asked me to record all of the happy coincidences in my life, especially those after I stopped drinking. He thought that would lead me to adopt a loving God, but to me they were just hap- py coincidences. My higher power did evolve, though. It wasn\u2019t anything religious. It was an ac- ceptance of myself as a small thing in a massive and magnificent universe. It serves me well.<\/p><p>I was able to work my way through the Steps with the universe as my higher power. I still \u201cpray\u201d but not to any religious deity. My \u201cprayer\u201d is a mo- ment of calm I find when I can take stock of what<span style=\"letter-spacing: 0px;\">ever issue is on my mind and stop thinking of it as the biggest problem that exists. In light of every- thing and everyone around me, my biggest prob- lems aren\u2019t the most important thing in the universe, and neither am I.<\/span><\/p><p>Other sponsors and people I meet in the rooms sometimes try to lead me toward a religious higher power, but I am 100 percent content with what I have.\u00a0<span style=\"letter-spacing: 0px;\">Like everyone else, I am indebted to Bill W. and Dr. Bob, but I am also grateful to the part that Jimmy B. played in the Big Book.\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0px;\">It is many years since my last drink. I am happy and contented. It\u2019s all down to the Fellowship.<\/span><\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><h2>Johnny\u2019s Story<\/h2><p>I am an alcoholic, and I am also an atheist, and it is to my own kind that I am writing: the atheist, the agnostic, the people who are still searching. As an atheist (and from present indications I shall proba- bly be one until the day I die), I respect the right of others to find whatever kind of power they need to take the load off their own self-will, and I expect them to let me find my own way to do likewise.<\/p><p>For some of us, reaching an atheistic position is one of the few spiritually honest things we ever did. Our minds may be more open than many think. I attend numerous A.A. meetings, and one theme al- ways stands out in my mind: many stories are about particular alcoholics who have found their places in life and, more important, in A.A., and in each case, there is a fight, a surrender and an acceptance.<\/p><p>If you are of an atheistic or strongly agnostic mindset like myself, chances are you\u2019ll walk into a meeting, see the Steps hanging on the wall and want to scream, laugh or walk back out. People tell me their stories \u2014 of God, the divine, the power of love, an intelligent Creator. I tell them I believe in mathematics. Some look at me in despair. And not infrequently, I\u2019ve been asked, \u201cSo you think you\u2019re the most important thing in the universe?\u201d In re- sponse I say, \u201cOn the contrary. I think I am among the smallest. Cosmically speaking, I barely exist.\u201d If you broke down all matter, you\u2019d arrive at the same thing: what scientists call a quark. And I find that not only fascinating but wondrous, awe-inspiring and humbling. I believe that the most important\u00a0<span style=\"letter-spacing: 0px;\">spiritual principle of A.A. is humility.<\/span><\/p><p>I tried A.A. years ago and after one meeting I went out, got drunk and stayed drunk for another year \u2014 a year filled with horror and degradation that made my other nine years of drinking seem like child\u2019s play. Having had my fill of people and life, and people and life having had their fill of me, I again turned to the last door that was open to me: A.A.<\/p><p>The first night back, I don\u2019t think I would have cared if God Himself had been the chairperson, I was staying, and I have stayed, and if the monkeys don\u2019t get too restless upstairs in my overactive mind\u00a0<span style=\"letter-spacing: 0px;\">\u2014which I think of as my traveling circus \u2014 I will be staying every day, each and every 24 hours of them one at a time. I believe that there is a place in the world and in A.A. for people who do not have the capacity to believe, and that we are no more or no greater oddities than those people who do believe. After all, faith is not something that you can buy ready for sale at a supermarket. You either believe or you don\u2019t believe, and if you don\u2019t, stop worrying about it. You can still stay sober.<\/span><\/p><p>Is there a God or isn\u2019t there? I say it doesn\u2019t mat- ter. In A.A. we recognize we are flawed, that we can and must change, and that our purpose not only in sobriety but in life is to be of service to others. I be- lieve that I exist at random, but I do not exist alone, and that as long as my quarks cohere, my entire function on this hurtling planet is to give what I can to others.<\/p><p>That keeps me sober. Amen.<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><h2>Where to find A.A.<\/h2><p>There are A.A. groups in large cities, small towns and rural areas throughout the world. Many A.A. intergroup or central offices have websites where information about local A.A. meetings can be found, and almost anywhere in the United States or Canada you will find a telephone number for A.A. These re- sources can help direct you to a meeting in your community. Additionally, information about local meetings can often be obtained from doctors and nurses, from the clergy, media outlets, police offi- cials, hospitals and alcohol rehabilitation facilities that are familiar with our program.<\/p><p>Each A.A. group endeavors to provide a safe meeting place for all attendees and to encourage a secure and nurturing environment. In A.A., the shared experience, strength and hope of sober alco- holics is the lifeline to sobriety; our common suffer- ing and our common solution transcend most difficulties, helping us to create the conditions in which to carry A.A.\u2019s message of hope and recov- ery to the still-suffering alcoholic.<\/p><p>Most members feel quite comfortable in any\u00a0<span style=\"letter-spacing: 0px;\">A.A. group. Yet, many A.A. communities also have special interest meetings where it may be easier for atheists or agnostics to identify as alcoholics or to be open about certain personal issues or beliefs.<\/span><\/p><p>If you cannot locate an A.A. group in your area, please contact the A.A. General Service Office, Box 459, Grand Central Station, New York, NY 10163,\u00a0<span style=\"letter-spacing: 0px;\">(212) 870-3400, <\/span><a style=\"background-color: #ffffff; letter-spacing: 0px;\" href=\"http:\/\/www.aa.org\/\">www.aa.org.<\/a><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0px;\"> They will put you in touch with the group nearest you.<\/span><\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><h2>A.A. literature and resources you may find helpful:<\/h2><p>Tradition Three, short and long forms<\/p><h5>A.A. World Services Pamphlets:<\/h5><p>\u201cA Newcomer Asks\u201d<\/p><p><em>(in particular, questions on A.A., religion and \u201cGod\u201d)<\/em><\/p><p>\u201cDo You Think You\u2019re Different?\u201d<\/p><p><em>(in particular, Ed\u2019s story and Jan\u2019s story)<\/em><\/p><p>\u201cMany Paths to Spirituality\u201d<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><h5>Books:<\/h5><p><em>Alcoholics Anonymous <\/em>(the Big Book). In particular:<\/p><ul><li>Foreword to First Edition<\/li><li>Foreword to Second Edition, xvi<\/li><li>Chapter 2, \u201cThere is a Solution,\u201d 26-29<\/li><li>Chapter 4, \u201cWe Agnostics,\u201d 44-57<\/li><li>Story, \u201cThe Vicious Cycle\u201d<\/li><li>Appendix II, \u201cSpiritual Experience\u201d<\/li><\/ul><p><em>One Big Tent: Atheist and agnostic members share their ex- <\/em><em>perience, strength and hope <\/em>(from AA Grapevine)<\/p><p><em>Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions, <\/em>\u201cStep Two\u201d<\/p><p><em>Living Sober <\/em><em>Came to Believe<\/em><\/p><p><em>As Bill Sees It, <\/em>selections on \u201cHigher Power\u201d<\/p><p><em>\u2018Pass It On\u2019<\/em><\/p><p><em>A.A. Comes of Age, <\/em>\u201cUnity: The Second Legacy,\u201d p. 81 and \u201cService: The Third Legacy,\u201d pp. 166-167<\/p><h3><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0px;\">THE TWELVE STEPS OF ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS<\/span><\/h3><ol><li>We admitted we were powerless over alco- hol \u2014 that our lives had become<\/li><li>Came to believe that a Power greater than ourselves could restore us to<\/li><li>Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God <em>as we understood Him.<\/em>\u00a0Made a searching and fearless moral in- ventory of ourselves.<\/li><\/ol><ol start=\"5\"><li>Admitted to God, to ourselves, and to another human being the exact nature of our<\/li><li>Were entirely ready to have God remove all these defects of<\/li><li>Humbly asked Him to remove our short- comings.<\/li><li>Made a list of all persons we had harmed, and became willing to make amends to them<\/li><li>Made direct amends to such people wher- ever possible, except when to do so would in- jure them or<\/li><li>Continued to take personal inventory and when we were wrong promptly admitted<\/li><li>Sought through prayer and meditation to improve our conscious contact with God <em>as we understood Him, <\/em>praying only for knowledge of His will for us and the power to carry that<\/li><li>Having had a spiritual awakening as the result of these steps, we tried to carry this mes- sage to alcoholics, and to practice these prin- ciples in all our<\/li><\/ol><h3>THE TWELVE TRADITIONS\u00a0<span style=\"letter-spacing: 0px;\">OF ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS<\/span><\/h3><ol><li>Our common welfare should come first; personal recovery depends upon A. unity.<\/li><li>For our group purpose there is but one ultimate authority \u2014 a loving God as He may express Himself in our group conscience. Our leaders are but trusted servants; they do not<\/li><li>The only requirement for A.A. member- ship is a desire to stop drinking.<\/li><li>Each group should be autonomous except in matters affecting other groups or A.A. as a<\/li><li>Each group has but one primary purpose<\/li><\/ol><p>\u2014 to carry its message to the alcoholic who still suffers.<\/p><ol start=\"6\"><li>An A.A. group ought never endorse, fi- nance or lend the A.A. name to any related facility or outside enterprise, lest problems of money, property and prestige divert us from our primary<\/li><li>Every A. group ought to be fully self- supporting, declining outside contributions.<\/li><li>Alcoholics Anonymous should remain for- ever nonprofessional, but our service centers may employ special<\/li><li>A., as such, ought never be organized; but we may create service boards or commit- tees directly responsible to those they serve.<\/li><li>Alcoholics Anonymous has no opinion on outside issues; hence the A.A. name ought never be drawn into public<\/li><li>Our public relations policy is based on at- traction rather than promotion; we need always maintain personal anonymity at the level of press, radio and\u00a0 anonymity at the level of press, radio and films.<\/li><li>Anonymity is the spiritual foundation of all our Traditions, ever reminding us to place principles before personalities.<\/li><\/ol><h1>ADECLARATION OF UNITY<\/h1><p>This we owe to A.A.\u2019s future: To place our<br \/>common welfare first; to keep our fellowship<br \/>united. 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